Trust me most you would obviously be doing this it's not just me or you but a whole bunch of people out there who tend to do this again and again . If i could describe it in one word or sentence then i would but it's not possible.
Well this is not just a single emotion here but it is a wave of numerous emotions coming together. Well usually if we cant get something or be with someone we usually start hating the thing or that person. i have no clue as to why we usually do it , but maybe we think it's a better option than to bear the negligence that we are facing . Well in the case of people....... We start hating soo much that we even forget when we actually craved for the friendship of that person or maybe we just hate the fact that he or she doesn't even care about our existence.
We forget the times that we were ever eager to meet the person, 1 small notion just changes the entire course of our lives. This hatred slowly starts turning into jealousy and we might not even know when it happened . We start wondering whether we ever liked the person or was it always the same ? Where are those days when everyone lived as a big happy family people never cared about anything they were carefree everyone was united as ONE.
Sometimes when that person starts talking to us we just forget about hating them and once they stop we start hating them again its like a switch like literally we keep on switching our sides again and again. But that is the worst situation a person can put himself into.
STOP for a moment and take a look at your past, try to remember each and every moment that lead to your so called hatred for that person ..... and believe me you won't even find a single incident due to which a humongous wall was created between the both of you. All this hatred has driven you to be envious of the person, you just get consumed into hating the person with all your heart and soul , but all you wanted was to reach out and shake that person's hand as a sign of friendship. Now this has turned into an ugly battle which you are practically fighting with yourself. the person you hate obviously doesn't know it all but also doesn't care what you think about them.
So my suggestion would be to forget those people and live your life the way you want to. However hard you try to be with them it's not gonna happen so forget that they even exist and live your life :D .OK technically you can't forget them but You can still try a bit and maybe when it's the right time they will come to you. So fingers crossed and never ever hate a person cause it does no good :) 
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