Thursday, 6 November 2014

Just Trying to Hold On .......

Long Time since i blogged about anything ..... maybe life just caught up with me, some things which were more important to me than others , it's just that,something was missing, nothing was there that could ever inspire me to write again ..but something changed about a couple of weeks ago , someone gave me hope once again ...... that little spark inside of me was ignited i felt like exploding and telling the world what i feel but I can't, i just don't have the courage to do so , some things are just so hard to express even if it may seem to be quite simple and easy but it isn't ....The whole world can tell you that  - 'don't keep it inside let it all out' but you and only "YOU" know what will be the consequences you are going to be facing after you've done that.



There are instances in life where you have to choose...you have to make a decision which obviously is very hard to make ...you can;t always run away from such problems or ignore them you have to take serious action or else it'll just pile up into a huge heap of complete mess. Sometimes it's always for the best.There was this one song which struck me ....i sort of connected to it . We can't keep holding on to something that has been damaged ,we might even try to fix it but we just cant seem to fix it, the more we try to fix it the more it gets screwed up . It's supposed to be a good thing right ??? Trying to fix something ... Then why the hell are we unable to do so.I mean why do we always remember things that are worthless ? why can't we see the more important thing that's beyond the worthless crap.

Suppose we get into a fight with someone even though that person and you have been like soul sisters, soul mates anything of that sort for like a shit load of time. In that split of a second we forget everything and just remember that fight we had. we forget all the good times we've had in the past...the happiness we shared together , the sorrows in which we cried together, all the times we never left each other. All of "THAT" just goes to waste.....it's sad that we don't value the actual things that we faced together but that "ONE WORD" that we said affects us so much that we can't forgive each other ?? Is it so hard to forget it all and remember the good times...Clear the air and move on ..


Every single person fights, we're human it's in our blood but remembering all the times we fought doesn't make us a great person or a naive person.... it just makes us vulnerable from the inside.All these little worthless fights we keep on remembering will become our greatest weakness. It just piles up and keeps on eating us from the inside....all the feelings we ever had starts crumbling into bits and pieces and we start forgetting "THE REAL US". It's the main reason as to why we see so many relationships falling apart in every second of our lives......We just need to forgive each other and move on ....

Fights are necessary but not to break up any relationship rather to make it even more stronger and better than before, we have to sort out our differences or else coming together in the first place was worthless.......sadly......Trying is not a bad thing but after some time it just feels like dragging along the wrong path. I would like to conclude by saying that "Never Give Up On Someone who You Value " cause there are only two options letting go or staying with them.....